Nowadays, honesty becomes a rare thing. Numerous people choose to lie to obtain advantages or even to hide soething. They do not realize how essential honesty is,especially for relationship. Many relationships break up, closeness in family become scarce, and children's behavior become bad deed because of lie.
In a couple, trust is very important to build and maintain the relation. However, trust is hard to get without honesty. A lie can destroy even a relationship which is built for years. many couples fight because one of them is found out cheating, and he or she makes a lie to hide it. Moreover, in serious condition, married couple divorse because the loose their trust for one of them lie about little things. In this case, honesty should be the thing for couples to keep their relationship to stay longer.
Lie is a part of life, but it brings many damages. in family, the habit to lie can fade closeness. For instance, children lie to their parents only to do what they want that their parents forbid. In this situation, to keep their lie, many children choose to keep quiet and stay away from their parents, so that their parents will not ask, get suspicious, and even get angry to them. They do it commonly to avoid punishment.
Because many children often lie to avoid punishment. It will be habit that unconciously they do everywhere to keep themselves in safe position. Aware or not, their behavior will change to be bad.for example, a child who likes to lie for avoiding punishment in home will continue to lie in school to shun some assignments. She or he may say sick or other reasons, so that they do not need to do the tasks. It directly makes him/herbecome a lazy person. it is bad for children's future.
To sum up, lie is common thing, but it is very dangerous for relationship and even behavior of people. It never brings any advantages, so it should be reduced by keeping the honesty. It is the only way and the most important thing to keep the relationship longer with less fracas.
